Buying Panties Online – An Interview with a Panty Buyer

How long have you been buying panties for?

I started buying panties in November of 2018, so almost one year as I write this. I was feeling very lonely and missing the scent of a woman. It didn’t help that the Holidays were coming and my feeling of loneliness was exacerbated.

I was up very late, feeling lonely as hell and deep into a bottle of scotch and ran a search for “worn panties” and was thrilled to find multiple sources. My first thought when I started to look into it was that there was no way I would be able to afford it even if it was available. I was shocked to see the prices but pleasantly shocked. It gave me hope. Sounds sad and I guess it was/is but that’s how it happened.

Where do you buy from?

I have created accounts on four (4) sites. Sofia Gray (ssamk13) was my first account, but I’ve never made a purchase from there. PantyDeal (Symmetry) was next and is my primary source. I also have accounts on Snifffr (Paddy13), where I’ve made a few connections. Lastly, I started looking on Scented Pansy (Symmetry), because of your comments on your podcast (no purchases yet).

How often do you buy a new pair?

I have a monthly/quarterly standard order from one lady that I connected with very early on. Otherwise, I am mostly driven by my urges, which may not be all that financially responsible but it makes me happy.

Do you buy additional items from panty sellers? If so, what?

Not so much… I’ve bought a pair of tights while in a Kik group and I’ve participated in one [Kik session], but that’s not really my thing. I just want to be able to breathe in the scent of a woman.

What do you look for in a panty seller?

I used to have a very strict rule for myself. I looked for women around my age range but I had a hard rule to not buy from women near my childrens’ age(s). I just felt like I wouldn’t be pursuing women of that age, so I shouldn’t be asking them to send me their underwear. Then I met a woman who sort of read me the riot act about that and she made a lot of sense, so I started expanding my searches. I still prefer to buy from someone nearer my age but I am far more open.

A connection is everything and I now find myself responding to sellers rather than seeking them. I have a story to my profile and I try to respond to the women that reach out to me with a thoughtful comment. I read profiles and I took the time to write a story on mine, so I work with sellers that are similar in that way.

I try so hard in my life to be kind to others. I was cheated on by my ex and I don’t like it when partners lie or hide things from each other, so if someone’s profile eludes to their spouse not knowing and that is exciting for them, I will not work with that person. To each their own and I mean no offense, that’s just my rule for me.

What turns you off from wanting to buy?

I don’t like when someone messages me with a simple “Hi”, “Hey”, “What’s Up”, “Will you buy from me?” I don’t like pushy or flippant comments. I’ve had some apologize for reaching out to me and I couldn’t disagree with that sentiment more. Sellers are here to make money. I have no issue with being contacted but for me, do so with thoughtfulness. That’s just me.

What advice would you give to a new seller?

I would tell them to listen to your podcast.

I would also tell them to believe in themselves. Don’t apologize for anything. AND… don’t sell yourself short, but please don’t make it unaffordable for those of us on a tight budget.

What advice would you give to a new buyer?

Be respectful! I receive a lot of comments from the ladies I work with that I’m so kind. Why shouldn’t I be? Sellers are providing a service that deserves your respect, so don’t be an asshole!

Do you think the market is saturated with sellers?

Short answer: No!
There are a lot of options for sure, but who doesn’t like options.

What does the future hold for panty selling online do you think?

I’m not sure. It’s brilliant to be able to experience something about a woman that you would not normally ever be able to experience but like everything in commerce it will continue to evolve and I have no idea where it will go. I will just continue to enjoy the ride. Maybe someday, panty sales and dating apps will combine for the ultimate sorting hat… hahaha!

Any other comments you’d like to add…

My affinity for women’s panties started at a very young age. I was 11 years old and visiting our family friends. I was infatuated by this girl who was 13 and we were hanging out in her room (myself, my older brother, and her younger brother, and her of course). We decided to go do something else and as we were leaving I saw a pair of her underwear, white with a rainbow from cloud to cloud on the front, lying on top of her laundry. I just snatched them up and stuffed them in my pocket and they became my primary source of inspiration for years to come. They were actually clean, but I didn’t care I sniffed them anyway, with absolute joy.

I took on the laundry responsibilities in my own marriage and eventually, I started sneaking my wife’s panties out of the laundry for my own pleasure and returning them when the scent wore out. I was completely hooked and when we divorced/separated there was a huge void in my life. The services of worn panty sales have answered that void.

It’s so much more than that for me now. My horizons have broadened because of buying panties. I have met some truly wonderful people through this process and I will never be the same sexually repressed man I was before. I have formed relationships that are truer than many relationships I have in my daily life. It’s impossible to not be affected by that and to have grown from that. Truly, I cannot thank the ladies of panty sales enough!