THESE ARE THE THINGS THEY SAY (AND THINK) ABOUT A WOMEN LIKE YOU.
A WOMAN LIKE ME.
Have you ever had a pretend conversation in your head with your friends?
You know, the one where you tell them what you do to make money?
Maybe some of them already know.
But do you tell them the full story?
Like, maybe some of your friends (like mine) know I sell panties. But they don’t know I’ve sold videos too.
They don’t know the weird and wonderful things I’ve received money for. You know what I’m talking about!
And I’ve kept it hidden. OF COURSE I’VE KEPT IT HIDDEN.
I sure haven’t posted it on my social media.
But Lord, I’ve thought about it.
I’ve thought about what SHE would say and what SHE would think if they really knew what my new exciting business really is.
And the very few friends that do know, well, I know what they think and how they feel about it (because they’ve outright told me).
I COULD NEVER…
And all the rest.
And I guess before I got into sex work I probably was one of those women.
The women who think and say that the women who do that are somehow ‘different’ to me.
They’re probably desperate. They have no self-respect. They have no shame!
And even if they don’t outright say it, they think it.
And even if they don’t think it, plenty more do.
And it’s not helped by the fact that society as a whole does not like sex workers. Fuck, we can’t even get paid for our work because big corp wants to make it impossible for us.
Oppression at every turn.
And it takes a super woman NOT to be affected by that. Hell, I spoke on my podcast (more than once) about my own inner struggle with the ‘good girls don’t do this’ narrative. And I know I’m not alone.
But let’s take it deeper.
What is the connection between you own sexuality and sex work?
What about the baggage you carried BEFORE you got ‘into sex work?
What impact does that have?
Well, everything really.
Because THAT is where the inner narrative comes from – the experiences that shaped your sexuality as you were growing up and as you continue to exist and grow as a woman in this world.
And I only made that realisation recently.
Who I am as a sex worker is underpinned by my own sexual experiences – in particular those around sexual shaming and the ‘good girl’ or even the virginal archetype.
And so I set to work and decide that in order to fully show up as a sexual being (and stop potentially sabotaging my income through my inner B.S. because really, why can I not say pussy without cringing????), it was time to heal some of the inner shame I was carrying into this work from my past.
So I created and went through this process – one I was taught in a previous life to do with another area of our lives (money).
And the results???
Well, I can’t say I woke up as a full-embodied mega whore screaming PUSSY from the rooftops and telling the world I’m a sex worker, BUT…
I felt like I’d overcome something that was definitely holding me back.
Stopping me from showing up fully in my sexuality UN-A-FUCKING-POLOGETICALLY.
And I definitely felt the shift.
A massive fuck you to the shame and judgement I was holding on to.
Not being afraid to sell SEX.
Being behind what I do without feeling I have to hide it through FEAR.
Forgiving my past and the stories that had shaped my sexuality as a woman.
And so I’ve recorded the process to help you.
Maybe you aren’t even AWARE of what you’re holding on to – I wasn’t. Hell, I was surprised at some of the realisations I had in this process.
Maybe you know that there’s a contraction inside you when it comes to selling your products or offers because you’re embarrassed or scared or ashamed somehow.
If so, then this is for you.
HOT SHAME – DROP THE SHAME AND RECLAIM THE POWER (AND INCOME) BEHIND YOUR SEXUALITY
1 hour LIVE Workshop with 23 page PDF workbook
This is your opportunity to discover what is holding you back.
Uncover your hidden beliefs around your sexuality so that you can FINALLY let the un-supportive ones go and strengthen the connection between your sexuality and your sex work.
Forgive yourself for the stories you’ve held on to around your sexuality and sex work.
When you release the shame, blame and mental energy around your sexuality and sex work, you’ll be amazed at the clarity that you can bring to your work.
Does that mean you’re going to jump straight to your social media to post EXACTLY what you do for a living?
But this isn’t about everyone else. This is about YOU. How you feel internally about your sexuality and what you do is so POTENT for showing up and expressing who you truly are.
In fact, it’s going to help you stand out more when you aren’t trying to emulate the sexual expression of other sellers.
This is an audio training workshop with accompanying handout to help you drop the shame and move on as an empowered sexually alive being, ready to harness that sexuality and transmute it to cold hard cash.
Ready to drop the shame?
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