But seriously, I want to tell you the one thing that has hands-down made me able to stay in this panty selling game as long (granted, it’s been almost four months) and make as many sales as I have.
And that is….(drumroll)…
SUPPORT.
And I’m not talking about support from my husband, although that definitely helps.
I’m talking about support from other women in this line of work.
My KIK group is my panty-selling life.
It’s what keeps me going through all the bullshit.
Through the days when I don’t sell.
Through the days when really, really horrible men contact me.
Or those that ask for the moon but don’t want to pay for it.
Thankfully, since doing this exercise they are getting fewer and further between!
We share our experiences and we share the highs and the lows.
COMMUNITY, people.
Without it you will suffer! Well, that’s probably a touch over-dramatic. Without it you will find this a whole lot more frustrating and challenging day-to-day.
That’s what I felt was really sadly lacking on the panty selling platform I joined.
I felt completely isolated and alone. I had nobody to ask whether my prices were right, or bounce ideas off of about products and such.
It was miserable.
And this isn’t the kind of job where you can pick up the phone and talk to your friends or your family about your struggles. Unless you’re ‘out’ as a panty seller/adult entertainment worker, which I definitely amn’t…yet!
I decided that if I wanted to be part of a community then I had to create one.
And so I did.
I started my KIK group #sellersbeforefellas to help bring women together. To ask the questions we wanted to ask and to uplift and support each other through good days and bad.
To celebrate success and laugh at the crazy things that happened that day.
THAT.
That is the key to my success.
If it wasn’t for that group I would have quit a long time ago.
If you are in a group, great.
If not, start one.
Create the community you need.
Be there for each other.
Uplift. Support. Celebrate. Laugh.
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Sales update:
So I had a pretty fruitful couple of days.
I had a custom panties request at $45.
Two nore panties at $65
And a bunch of videos that totalled $50
A three-figure day yesterday!
I’m all about three-figure days!