I joined Pantydeal yesterday because I was helping a couple of sellers with their profile. (I’m not selling there, I have a buyer profile!)
It’s been almost a year since I left Pantydeal so it’s been quite the stroll down memory lane but that’s a story for another day.
I’ll tell you that not only helping the sellers who asked me to take a look at their profile, I decided to take a look at some other profiles.
And it’s fair to say that a lot of profiles actually suck ass… and not in a good way!
LADIES!
Last time I checked we live in the rollercoaster year of 2020 when there’s literally NO excuse not to be amazing at lots of things because it’s the information age, y’all!
There are bijillions of pages of interwebs online that will teach you and show you and demonstrate to you all the things about all the things you want to know.
What about ‘how to write a good dating profile’ for starters?
Yes, I said dating. Know why? Because that is the CLOSEST thing to writing a panty selling profile you’re gonna find online. I mean, I do write about creating a good profile here, but really, there are so many thousands of examples you could be getting inspiration from that there is no excuse other than you’re ACTUALLY DEAD, for you not to write something better than (I shit you not)
‘Here to make extra cash’
‘DM me your requests’
NO!
NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
Do better.
Take the time to write something that makes me (your buyer) want to know more/buy from you.
It really isn’t rocket surgery.
And whilst I’m on my little rant here…
Can we talk about passivity?
I mean, being passive is sexy and I’ve waxed lyrical before about the polarity of the sexes and how women are here to receive from the man and all that but really?
‘Tell me what you want?’
‘I’m happy to do this if you like’
‘I’m open to your requests’
How ’bout no?
What if you walked into a store and the manager was like, “What kinds of things do you like? We can get yellow trousers in if you like? Would you like a cup holder?”
It would be kind of confusing and you’d think the manager a bit of a wimp that doesn’t REALLY know what s/he’s doing, right?
How about…
‘My speciality is….’
‘I love to sell…….’
‘Whilst I’m open to some requests, my forte is…’
‘My strength lies in…’
‘What’s special about me is….’
‘What sets me apart from the other sellers is I specialise in….’
People are more likely to buy from you when it looks like you’ve got this in hand. You know what you’re doing and you’re not just flopping around waiting for someone to show up and tell you what the fuck you’re good at or to do.
Does that make sense?
Be more confident in your profile. Be more assertive about your business and your offerings.
I’m currently writing a copywriting course to help you with this kind of shit. Spoiler: it might be released by Christmas at the current rate because I’m SO FUCKING BUSY.
But yeah, if you want to bounce ideas off me, HMU.
Dalma x